Real Men

man readingWhat is a real man? Is he tall, dark, rugged and handsome with a washboard physique and penetrating blue eyes?  The Roman gladiators of our day are portrayed as specimens of man’s glory in appearance and dress challenging the view of society to favor rich, successful men of external exuberant charm. And then the commercial comes and life is not as real as one seems. What makes a real man anyway? How do we measure the true character of a real man?

REAL MEN KNOW HOW TO LIVE. There is a side of comedy when men decide to live as if they could conquer the world. They are full of the macho manhood of superiority with all its glamor and charm and possess all the talents of a snowman. The wise man exhorted young men to “Remember now your Creator in the days of your youth, before the difficult days come, and the years draw near when you say, ‘I have no pleasure in them’” (Ecclesiastes 12:1). Those “difficult days” come to all men. Life is not about the gusto of living for the moment and going as fast as you can. Some have the mistaken idea that living the fast life and sliding into home at the end is the glory of a real man. A real man is one who takes stock of life in regard to what he really is – a mortal man.

What conclusion did the wise man have for the real man? “Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God and keep His commandments, for this is man’s all. For God will bring every work into judgment, including every secret thing, whether good or evil” (Ecclesiastes 12:13-14). This is not a negative message but a positive one. The Lord encouraged youth to enjoy the fleeting days of strength (Ecclesiastes 11:9-10) but to keep a focus on life. A real man knows how to order his life in a proper manner.  “For bodily exercise profits a little, but godliness is profitable for all things, having promise of the life that now is and of that which is to come” (1 Timothy 4:8). A real man knows that a godly life is for eternity to come but also for the life that now is.

REAL MEN KNOW HOW TO CHANGE. Asking directions is not a manly thing to do for some reason. Admitting a need to change is not high on the list either. This virile feeling of invincibility hinders the “real man” from changing. His youth is his strength and to change the character is a sign of weakness. Pride is the central reason men refuse to change their hearts, their lives, their attitudes or anything they feel would lessen their supposed manhood. The great men of God changed many things in their lives. Abraham accepted change and went where God directed him to go. David changed when confronted by Nathan who faced the king with his sin. Peter changed his life as did Saul of Tarsus who became the apostle Paul.

As the real man knows how to live he changes his life to mold into the character of Jesus Christ. The real man has “put off the old man with his deeds, and [has] put on the new man who is renewed in knowledge according to the image of Him who created him” (Colossians 3:10). To be a real man is to be a man in the image of the Son of God.

REAL MEN KNOW HOW TO BE HUMBLE. The humble heart is the central character of a man of God. Humility is to be possessed of meekness which in the eyes of the Lord is a great strength. Read the story of Moses and see how he was a real man. “Now the man Moses was very humble, more than all men who were on the face of the earth” (Numbers 12:3). The Lord will lift up the real man of humility (Psalm 147:6; James 4:10; 1 Peter 5:6).

The real man of a humble spirit is one that shines in the grace of Jesus Christ. “Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do” (Colossians 3:12-13). Now that is a real man.

REAL MEN KNOW HOW TO LOVE. Knowing how to love is shown in the heart, in language and in action. Young men who show love for others are real men. Husbands who tell their wives each day of their love for them are real men. Fathers who share with their children every day words of love are real men. Love is a strength when felt and shown towards others. Jesus had compassion on others because He was a man of love (Mark 6:34). His love was shown by touching the leper (Mark 1:41). On the cross He expressed His love for Mary when He asked John to take care of her (John 19:26-27). Real men know the value of 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 in defining love in their lives. They are known as men who have hearts of love; men who express their love; men who show their love in action. A chauvinist spirit cannot reside in a real man. The real man is guided by the compassion for others.

REAL MEN KNOW HOW TO PRAY. A man who knows how to kneel is a man who stands tall. The real man knows grace and has experienced mercy. Prayer is the removal of self and the exaltation of the Lord. Prideful men do not pray. Arrogant men do not pray. Self-centered men do not pray. These men only utter words. The real man is the man who opens his heart to a loving God and seeks the blessings of his Maker. “The [misguided man] stood and prayed thus with himself, ‘God, I thank You that I am not like other men–extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this [man]. I fast twice a week; I give tithes of all that I possess.’ And the [real man], standing afar off, would not so much as raise his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me a sinner!’” (Luke 18:11-13). Here is a real man.

Husbands who pray as leaders of their home are real men. Fathers who set the example of prayer in the home are real men. Godly men who stand in a world of business and pray for guidance are real men. Real men pray real prayers of heart-felt devotion and love for their Savior.

REAL MEN KNOW HOW TO SAY “I’M SORRY.” The greatest weakness a man will possess is the inability and unwillingness to admit wrong. A spirit of superiority that does not allow a man to recognize he is wrong is a spirit of a weak man; miserably weak. Many marriages are wrecked from this attitude. Fatherhood is seen as a tyranny by children of a man unpossessed with the honesty to admit wrong. The king of Israel did not blame others for what he did – he admitted his own sin. “So David said to Nathan, ‘I have sinned against the Lord’” (2 Samuel 12:13). There is only one man who was without fault and He was Jesus Christ. To express remorse over words said unbridled shows the real strength of manhood. Showing to their children the frailty of fatherhood exalts a man as a father to his children. Expressing a spirit of a contrite heart is what possesses a real man.

The words “I’m sorry” show a humble heart of one who is more interested in the welfare of another instead of his own stubborn will. It expresses in words a love without bounds. Simple words but how majestic when heard from a man who knows the favor of the Lord in his own life. Finally,

REAL MEN KNOW GOD. Jehovah said of Abraham, “I have known him” (Genesis 18:19). Real men do not pursue the false accolades of human honor but the declaration of the real spirit of a man who is known by the Almighty. Whatever awards and privileges can be given to man on this earth will all pass away but the favor of the Lord will always endure (Proverbs 12:2). The real man is one who knows the will of God and takes the mantle of leadership as one directed by God Himself. His shoulders stand broad as a servant of the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. The prayers of this man will be mighty. Homes will be secure in the guidance of a man who will possess his family to the eternal gates of life. Real men are men of the book – the word of God.

Real men not only know how to do all these things; THEY DO THEM. They live with a proper view of life, they change those things in their lives that show them to be a man’s man instead of God’s man, they become humble in their spirit, they show and speak their love to their wives and children and brethren, they are not afraid to cry, they show an example in prayer by praying often, they admit they are wrong because they are wrong sometimes (more often than admitted), they take the cloak of leadership seriously – and most important – they are known of God.

Moses was called a “man of God” (Deuteronomy 33:1) as was David (Nehemiah 12:36). A man of God is a real man. Real men find the peace that surpasses understanding and allows Christ Jesus to guard their hearts and minds (Philippians 4:7). “So I sought for a man among them who would make a wall, and stand in the gap before Me on behalf of the land, that I should not destroy it; but I found no one” (Ezekiel 22:30). May the Lord find real men waiting to stand in the gap for Him.

← Back

Thank you for your response. ✨

Posted in Character Study, Christian, Church, Marriage, Morality, New Testament, Old Testament, Proverbs, Social Issues, Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , | Leave a comment

Rhoda

Rhodaprayerroots

Peter had a vision that an angel came to him in the night and rescued him from the Roman prison Herod had put him in. The intention of the king was to kill Peter as he had killed James the brother of John. Leaving the prison the apostle came to himself and realized what he thought was a vision was in fact real; the Lord had sent His angel to set Peter free. “So, when he had considered this, he came to the house of Mary, the mother of John whose surname was Mark, where many were gathered together praying. And as Peter knocked at the door of the gate, a girl named Rhoda came to answer. When she recognized Peter’s voice, because of her gladness she did not open the gate, but ran in and announced that Peter stood before the gate” (Acts 12:12-14).

It must have been bemusing to the apostle to knock on the door and have Rhoda run away without opening the door. Standing in the dark street Peter worried about the soldiers finding him. He kept knocking. Finally the door opened and to the astonishment of those gathered there he stood. Luke records Peter motioning with his hand for everyone to remain quiet as he relayed to story of his release. He asked they let James and the other brethren know of his escape and then went into hiding at another place. Luke does not mention Peter again until his final reference in Acts 15:7.

Rhoda had recognized Peter’s voice when he knocked on the door. There were many brethren gathered at Mary’s house for prayer; no doubt for Peter’s safety. The execution of James the brother of John had shaken the faith of the disciples. With Peter imprisoned their prayers were much more fervent as they stretched into the night. When Rhoda came in saying Peter was standing at the door it seemed they could not believe such was possible. This could be a doubt on their part that prayer would deliver the apostle from the security of sixteen Roman soldiers. But Rhoda insisted she knew the voice of Peter. They found Peter knocking at the door.

How excited Rhoda was when she heard Peter’s voice. She did not doubt nor think it a trick but in her simple youthful faith rejoiced that God had delivered this wonderful man. There is a humorous side of the story as she leaves poor Peter knocking at the door. Leaving him there she could have jeopardized his escape. Bursting into the gathering of prayers being offered for Peter she was met with disbelief. A lesson of answered prayer was taught that night by a little girl.

Prayer is a tough thing sometimes. The disciples learned the nature of prayer when a man brought his son to Jesus complaining His disciples could not heal him (Matthew 17:14-21). They had the power but lacked the faith to overcome the demon. It is easy to view prayer as a tool effective for normal everyday use but becomes only a token of faith when faced with seemingly impossible odds. Did those gathered at Mary’s house believe in the power of prayer to deliver Peter from a Roman prison? There would be good reasons to believe like James that Peter would be killed. A Roman guard of sixteen men was impregnable. No one in their right mind would try to spring the apostle free nor did anyone (especially the disciples) have the manpower to accomplish such a feat. Yet when God shows His own power it seems to surprise them. They could not believe Rhoda.

This does not suggest that prayers of impossibilities are always answered. It would be safe to assume that prayer was offered for James when arrested by Herod. Saul of Tarsus had already persecuted the church spreading the remnants of the church throughout the regions of Judea and Samaria and beyond. This persecution included men and women being cast into prison, being put to death and tortured (Acts 8:1-3; 26:9-11). The death of James would not have been a total surprise. But Peter was delivered. The answers to prayer reside in the mind of God alone and are according to His divine will and design. Saints must continue to pray – pray hard and fervently. And wait for the knock at the door and the voice of those delivered. When Rhoda comes running in telling us the Lord has delivered our loved one we must rejoice nothing doubting.

“Is anyone among you suffering? Let him pray. Is anyone cheerful? Let him sing psalms. Is anyone among you sick? Let him call for the elders of the church, and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord. And the prayer of faith will save the sick, and the Lord will raise him up. And if he has committed sins, he will be forgiven. Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much. Elijah was a man with a nature like ours, and he prayed earnestly that it would not rain; and it did not rain on the land for three years and six months. And he prayed again, and the heaven gave rain, and the earth produced its fruit. Brethren, if anyone among you wanders from the truth, and someone turns him back, let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save a soul from death and cover a multitude of sins” (James 5:13-20).

James declares the power of prayer over suffering and the work of elders praying over the sick. Everyone expects the preacher to visit them in their dire straits but consider the impact of elders fulfilling their role of shepherding the flock in spending time praying with the members about their battles with sin, their families and marriages, their disagreements, their hopes and dreams – and their illness. Have we shelved this verse to the times of miracles because we do not anoint with oil or raise the dead? Has prayer lost its voice today? Rhoda cries out that Peter is standing at the door and we do not believe. We pray for rain but do not bring the umbrellas. Prayers are lifted for very ill brethren but faith may temper our belief that anything good will come of it.

Prayers are not answered simply because we ask. We will receive the blessing from God as He measures it out and this is only in accordance with His wish – “But they do not know the thoughts of the Lord, nor do they understand His counsel … For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways, says the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways, and My thoughts than your thoughts” (Micah 4:12; Isaiah 55:8-9). James died and Peter lived. Trusting in the Lord is the proof of our faith in prayer. “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18).

← Back

Thank you for your response. ✨

Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

You Have A Terminal Illness (Mary Evelyn Heaton)

You Have A Terminal Illness

(Mary Evelyn Heaton)

You have a terminal disease – how dreadful that pronouncement. When we or one of our loved ones hear these words, we all react with shock and disbelief. If in the case of a child or young person we say he never really had a chance at life. With a more mature person we say they had so much to live for. And we grieve – we speak in whispers or not at all about their illness. Sometimes when they are unaware, we look at them and our eyes fill with tears and our heart is wrenched at the thought of the loss of this one we love. Even people we don’t know, a public figure or movie star, we experience grief.

Are we so ignorant, brethren that we do not know that even as we were delivered into this world, the sentence of death hung over us all? I read frequently of people who are caring for their children whom doctors have pronounced terminally ill. If they are able to do so, they take them to see distant lands; they buy and do for them – crowding into the few months all the expectations of a lifetime. Love is showered down. Patience is unending; each day is lived to its fullest. Parents forgo other pleasures to make them happy.

Just so it is if it is a husband or wife. Reassurances of love and care. People themselves under such a pronouncement say, “I’ll live each day to its fullest. I will see things I’ve never seen before. I will try to deeply experience each facet of life.” Of course there are darker moments of giving up – rage of lost hope.

If one could realize as we all live from day to day, we are not assured more than the last breath we have drawn. What a pity we cannot enrich our lives each day with the joys God has given us. Why must we only react with such depth of love if we have been told “only a few months left?” Why do we get caught up in our daily life to the extent our values are warped. To leave unsaid things we may never have a chance to say. Feeling secure in the fact that we have years yet to live.

If I could say one thing before eternal silence, I would say, “Life is a terminal illness – live each day as under that sentence. Drink deeply of the beauty and joy of life, experience love, share your life. Above all, trust God in all he says. The poet writes:

Art is long, and Time is fleeting,

And our hearts, though stout and brave,

Still, like muffled drums, are beating

Funeral marches to the grave.

(Henry Wadsworth Longfellow)

 

Truly, as the Lord lives and as your soul lives, there is but a step between me and death

(1 Samuel 20:3)

 

Lord, make me to know my end, and what is the measure of my days, that I may know how frail I am (Psalms 39:4)

 

And this is the promise that He has promised us–eternal life (1 John 2:25)

Posted in Character Study, Christian, Church, Marriage, Morality, New Testament, Old Testament, Proverbs, Social Issues, Uncategorized | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

Your Faithfulness Is Like A Morning Cloud

early-morning-cloudYour Faithfulness Is Like A Morning Cloud

Come, and let us return to the Lord; for He has torn, but He will heal us; He has stricken, but He will bind us up. After two days He will revive us; on the third day He will raise us up, that we may live in His sight. Let us know, let us pursue the knowledge of the Lord. His going forth is established as the morning; He will come to us like the rain, like the latter and former rain to the earth. O Ephraim, what shall I do to you? O Judah, what shall I do to you? For your faithfulness is like a morning cloud, and like the early dew it goes away. Therefore I have hewn them by the prophets, I have slain them by the words of My mouth; and your judgments are like light that goes forth. For I desire mercy and not sacrifice, and the knowledge of God more than burnt offerings” (Hosea 6:1-6).

Man is a fickle creature. Imbedded in all of us is the ability to be devoted and consecrated people to a purpose or cause. Athletes excel in their sport spending incredible hours training. Scholars exhaust hours upon hours of study to gain a level of expertise in a desired field. Heroes are found in the most unlikely places from a spirit of courageous resolve. Stories of survival are inscribed upon the pages of inspiration for the endurance of the human spirit. With all of this deep rooted resolution of the nature of man he finds so often the inability to keep faith in the Creator.

Hosea, a prophet of God, lived in perilous times. The kingdom was experiencing the upheavals of kings who were evil being warned of God impending doom lest they repent. There were times of plenty and times of famine. Revival found its home for a short time but sin triumphed over the people as they turned away from the Lord God. The people are lying, cheating, stealing, killing, and committing adultery failing to hear Hosea’s plea of change. The prophet goes to the root of the problem for as a people of God their faith was likened to a “morning cloud and like the early dew it goes away” (Hosea 6:4). Earlier the charge by Hosea was God’s people were “destroyed for lack of knowledge” and had “forgotten the law of your God” (Hosea 4:6). Faith and knowledge are inexplicably intertwined with one another as Paul writes in Romans 10:17 that “faith comes by hearing and hearing by the word of God.”

The downfall of God’s people can be attributed to their failure to instill in their hearts the strength of the words of God. Religion began to be a ritual with actions and procedures rather that the knowledge of God. Burnt offerings were giving in rote ceremony of duty without affection. Sacrifices presented in their worship had no feeling or desire for affection toward the Lord. Worship had been polluted by the faithless hearts drawn away by the deceptive enticements of idol worship.

How could the chosen people of God reject Him and turn to the debauchery of Baal? “I found Israel like grapes in the wilderness; I saw your fathers as the firstfruits on the fig tree in its first season. But they went to Baal Peor, and separated themselves to that shame; they became an abomination like the thing they loved” (Hosea 9:10). The path to rebellion is strewn with the failed convictions of men who do not have the resolute character to devote themselves fully to the will of God. They ran well but they did not continue. Because of the famine in the land for the word of the Lord the people’s faith became as passing as a morning mist. “Hear the word of the Lord, you children of Israel, for the Lord brings a charge against the inhabitants of the land: There is no truth or mercy or knowledge of God in the land” (Hosea 4:1).

Mercy and knowledge is what were needed in the land. Faith was vanquished upon the sacrifices and burnt offerings given to soothe a gilded conscience serving the Lord through actions rather than the heart. The lesson from Hosea is the same appeal for the nation of saints today. Sacrifice and burnt offerings are given without mercy. Within the body of Christ a famine exists in the hearts of disciples. Lack of knowledge has always destroyed faith. Where is the stand for truth as it was in the days of revival (Acts 3:19)? How are the lives of the Christian changed by the mercy of God? What has happened to a group of people that once were known as “people of the book?”

The church of God in America suffers from the delusions of modern Baal’s that vie for time, hearts and mind. As the people of old the holy nation of God in our century suffers from the faithlessness of knowledge lost. How easy Satan entraps the mind to be filled with everything but the knowledge of God. Worship becomes a common thing. Devotion to the cause of Christ goes by the wayside. Stories of conversion become fewer and fewer as less time is spent in saving souls. We go to church on Sunday biding our time until we meet again. Oh the drudgery of it all. When will the Lord take the gospel away from the self-satisfied American culture and give it to those less fortunate who truly need the pure milk of the word.

The clarion call of the New Testament is trumpeted in the ears of those who will devote their lives to work of Christ. This is not a passive call. We do not merely put on the armor of God – we go into battle. In the city of Thessalonica the early Christians were charged with turning the world upside down (Acts 17:6). Let every tongue proclaim in their community the saving message of a merciful Father. Be the instrument that will bring someone to Christ. Fill the gap as God’s people to defeat the armies of apathy that invade our land. Let not our faith be like the morning cloud or early dew but rather a lasting shower of His knowledge in our lives. Tune the heart to live for Christ each day in our speech, our manner of life, our moral rule, our recreation – our lives. “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven” (Matthew 5:16).

Posted in Uncategorized | 1 Comment

Why Don’t You Grow Up (Author Unknown)

nicley children 2Why Don’t You Grow Up?

(Author Unknown)

One of these days you’ll shout, “Why don’t you kids grow up and act your age?”

And they will.

Or you’ll say, “Kids get outside and find something to do, and don’t slam the door!”

And they won’t.

You’ll straighten the boy’s bedroom neat and tidy — bumper stickers discarded, bedspread tucked and smooth, toys displayed on the shelves, hangers in the closet with clothes attached, animals caged — and you’ll say out loud, “Now I want it to stay just like this!” And it will.

You’ll prepare a perfect dinner with a salad that hasn’t been picked to death and cake with no finger traces in the icing, and you’ll say, “Now there’s a meal fit for company!”

And you will eat alone.

You’ll say, “I want complete privacy while I’m on the phone. No dancing. No pantomime. No demolition crews. Silence. Do you hear me?”

And you will have it.

No more plastic place mats stained with spaghetti. No more spreads to protect sofas from damp bottoms and dusty shoes. No more gates to stumble over in the doorway of the baby’s room. No more Hot Wheels or baby dolls under the couch. No more playpens to arrange a room around.

No more anxious nights under vaporizer tents. No more cracker crumbs on the sheets. No more wall-to-wall water in the bathroom. No more iron-on patches. No wet, knotted shoelaces, pants with knees out, or rubber bands for pony tails.

Imagine a lipstick with a point on it, not having to get a baby-sitter for New Year’s Eve, washing clothes only once a week, seeing a steak that isn’t ground, shopping with only groceries in the basket. No more P.T.A. meetings. No more car pools. No blaring radios, or Blues Clues three times a day. No more washing hair at 9 o’clock at night. And no more wondering, “Where is the family car?” Imagine having your own roll of scotch tape!

Think about it. No more Christmas presents made out of construction paper and Elmer’s glue. No more sloppy oatmeal kisses. No more tooth fairy. No more giggles in the dark. No scraped knees to bandage. No responsibility! Only a voice crying, “Why don’t you grow up!”

And the silence echoing, “I did!”

Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Which Ones?

BTH_86Which Ones?

When the young man of Matthew 19 came to Jesus asking about eternal life, he had an opaque view of what was really needed to be a faithful child of God. He came to the right source and it is clear he realized that Jesus was not just a carpenter’s son but the Son of God. “Good teacher, what good thing shall I do that I may have eternal life” (Matthew 19:16). No other question is so important than what happens in the eternal realm of man’s existence. The answer from Jesus was rather simple and direct. “If you want to enter into life, keep the commandments” (Matthew 19:17). The Law of Moses was sterling clear of God’s requirement to keep the statutes and laws of the Lord. “You shall observe My judgments and keep My ordinances, to walk in them: I am the Lord your God. You shall therefore keep My statutes and My judgments, which if a man does, he shall live by them: I am the Lord (Leviticus 18:4-5).

Matthew is the only writer that records the response of the ruler: “Which ones?” (Matthew 19:18). The heart of the young man was not truly seeking an honest answer to the question of eternal life but rather as so many people do when they come before God seeking salvation he wanted to know the minimal amount of service given to receive eternal life. Consider the reason he would ask this question. Which laws did he think he did not have to keep? What reason would there be to exclude any law as applicable to his life? Did he view the law as a buffet to be chosen on the whim of the moment?

Jesus summed up the fullness of law keeping in Matthew 19:18-19 and feeling gratified he had successfully passed the litmus test the young man boasted he had kept all these laws from youth and “what do I still lack?” (Matthew 19:20). An arrogant spirit drove the heart of this young man. He first wanted to limit the commands of God to a select bullet-list of do’s and don’ts; he then proclaimed his commandment keeping virtue of suggesting he had been a noble servant of the Lord since birth; and confidently felt eternal life was his. It was then the Lord spoke directly to the root of the problem. “’If you want to be perfect, go, sell what you have and give to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven; and come, follow Me.’ But when the young man heard that saying, he went away sorrowful, for he had great possessions” (Matthew 19:21-22).

His first question was the right question: “What shall I do to have eternal life?” The next two question’s he tried to corral the commandments of God into a neat package of limited responsibility by asking which commandments must he keep (as if there was a limitation) and since he had kept all six of the specific laws illustrated by Jesus then what would he lack. Self-confident to a fault. Limiting requirements of law to only a few chosen commands. His heart was not prepared to give up his riches. He served God faithfully but only so far as he had to do what was required of him and nothing else. “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you pay tithe of mint and anise and cummin, and have neglected the weightier matters of the law: justice and mercy and faith. These you ought to have done, without leaving the others undone. Blind guides, who strain out a gnat and swallow a camel” (Matthew 23:23-24).

The story of the rich young ruler is a story for the religious man today. Many are seeking the answer to eternal life. Most would believe that when they die they want to go to Heaven. Everyone wants to go to Heaven but few are willing to pay the price. When the ruler asked Jesus, “which ones” he had to look at the Law as a minimal code book. “What little can I do to be saved” is not what the people asked on the day of Pentecost (Acts 2:37). Noah did not want a smaller boat; David did not let someone else step into the valley of Elah; Paul did not bear a cross with wheels; and Jesus did not seek another way but only the way of His Father!

Cross bearing is hard business. “He who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me … If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple. And whoever does not bear his cross and come after Me cannot be My disciple … whoever of you does not forsake all that he has cannot be My disciple’ (Matthew 10:38; Luke 14:26-33). What do you mean “which ones”? What commandments of God are not needed in my life? Can I pick and choose which commandments I want to follow and expect the Lord to be pleased? Jesus died on the cross for my sins and I want to ask “which ones?”

Too often people complain about what the Lord requires of them. This comes from a spirit not unlike the rich young ruler who agreed to serve God on his terms and not God’s terms. I will obey you but only so far as it does not make me uncomfortable. Don’t expect too much from me, Lord. Expecting me to assemble with the people of God on a regular basis is asking too much. Having to give of my wealth is pushing the envelope far beyond reason. Making me sit for more than 20 minutes to a sermon is not fair. Letting people see God living in my life is too awkward and don’t expect that. I WANT TO DO AS LITTLE AS POSSIBLE PLEASE!

“But we see Jesus, who was made a little lower than the angels, for the suffering of death crowned with glory and honor, that He, by the grace of God, might taste death for everyone” (Hebrews 2:9). When did Jesus say to His Father, “which ones”? He gave His all that we may be all with Him. The Lord paid our salvation with His blood. HIS body was nailed to a cross. Glory was given up with the Father to humble Himself as a man and became obedient to the point of death. And I worry that the Lord is asking too much for me. Shame on me. Shame on my arrogance. What right do I have to complain about anything? What will I ever do to repay the Father and the Son for the sacrifice at the “Place of the Skull?”

The Philippian Jailor did not ask for the minimal. He came “trembling before Paul and Silas … and said, ‘Sirs, what must I do to be saved?” (Acts 16:29-30). He did not ask ‘which ones” but with fear in his heart and a desire for salvation willing to do whatever was commanded of him. “Thy will be done” excludes the idea of small minded salvation. “Speak, Lord, for Your servant hears” (1 Samuel 3:9).

← Back

Thank you for your response. ✨

Posted in Character Study, Christian, Church, Marriage, Morality, New Testament, Old Testament, Proverbs, Social Issues, Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Today Is Monday – The Firmament Of My Week

MondayToday is Monday. On the first day of the week God said, “Let there be light” and there was light (Genesis 1:3). It was the first day of the week nearly 2,000 years ago the true Light came into the world when Jesus rose from the dead. It was the second day of the week the Lord “made the firmament, and divided the waters which were under the firmament from the waters which were above the firmament (Genesis 1:7). Today is Monday, day two of the week. What a great day this is. This was the day the Creator established the atmosphere that is so vital to life on planet earth. Without the atmosphere life would not be able to survive. Contained within its framework is the sustaining character of creation. The vapors are gathered that bring weather systems to the earth. Diffusing the rays of the Sun our atmosphere refracts light as well as reflects light. Oxygen fills this void making life vibrant. Believe it or not that is Monday. Yep. That day of infamy scorned by multitudes for the challenges its pages bring to the week. This is a great day because it breathes life into the week as oxygen to the atmosphere. Having placed our hearts in tune with worship on Sunday we begin our tasks for the week filled with the Spirit of God and the nature of holiness. Monday is stepping off on the right foot. Monday is the day that helps set the course for a wonderful week serving the Light of the world. Fill the world with the aroma of righteousness this day and carrying through this week the essence of Jesus Christ. Thank you God for Monday.

← Back

Thank you for your response. ✨

Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

A Greater Challenge Than Ice

??????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????A Greater Challenge Than Ice

There is a phenomenon sweeping the nation where people are pledging their money to help raise funds for patients and organizations with ALS, a neurodegenerative disorder. It is commonly called Lou Gehrig’s disease, after the baseball player who had it. Originally started in the professional golfing world to raise money for various charities, it has become an internet sensation with people challenging others to douse themselves with ice water sending millions of dollars in donations to the ALS Association. Many have done this (including this author) showing solidarity and support for a worthy cause. There can be no doubt to the impact in years to come as this most ingenious way to bring awareness to the challenges many people face in life and a simple means to raise money. The key element in the success of this program is the amount of people who are not contributing millions or thousands of dollars for the cause but rather the small donations that add up to millions of dollars.

Everyone knows the fury of an avalanche is not because one snowflake but millions of snowflakes joined together as one that creates a force that is able to move anything in its path. A rainstorm has its greatest power when all the drops of rain become a torrent of rushing water. The principle is simple: “A little leaven leavens the whole lump” (Galatians 5:9). The power of what a single element of leaven can do to the whole lump is the impact such a small thing can have. Who would have dreamed that a simple act of pouring ice water over the head would raise millions of dollars? What a worthy and noble cause. How important these acts of kindness are goes without saying. But let’s take this story a little further.

Consider the power of salt and light. Small grains of salt can change the taste of food and a candle light can be seen for miles. Combining the impact of single grains of salt and a single candle can bring great seasoning to foods and light up the world. Jesus taught, “You are the salt of the earth; but if the salt loses its flavor, how shall it be seasoned? It is then good for nothing but to be thrown out and trampled underfoot by men. You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand, and it gives light to all who are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven” (Matthew 5:13-16). Salt is used for seasoning and as people of God we bring a spiritual flavor to our community. As people of light we shine forth our lights to show the glory of God living in us. The challenge before us is to take the salt out of the shaker and let its influence spread to those we come in contact with. Our lights are not to be hidden but shining brightly to let others see Christ.

If we could instill in our hearts the same devotion and interest in bringing someone to Christ as pouring ice water over our heads what a difference the world would be. Please understand the difference of the two: the cause for ALS is a most honorable and worthy pursuit and we should encourage everyone to be a part of the community of those who can help – but think of what we can accomplish in the body of Christ if we were committed to help bring one person to Christ this year. The leaders of the ALS organization were stunned at the amount of money raised by such a simple act of pouring ice water on the heads of thousands of people. Think what the church would be if everyone would make it their desire to help bring one person to Christ each year. You can do the math and you will be stunned.

There is a question that begs to be asked: how many souls have been influenced to obey the gospel of Jesus Christ by our lives? It is easy to look at the world and think that saving the world is impossible. Jesus did say that only the few were going to be saved (Matthew 7:13-14) and often we may decide that the few are going to be saved by others. The sad reality is that if half of us would help bring one person to Christ what a difference the world would be. Sometimes the greater challenge to evangelizing the world is the silence of the few who could speak to the many and fails to do so. Many are lost not because of the roar of the world but the silence of the saints.

Can everyone sit down and unfold the pages of God’s word with a full explanation of what a person must do to be saved? Sadly, no. But the admonition is to be a ‘helper’ of winning souls. Homes can be opened to Bible studies where individuals are brought together to share the saving news of Jesus Christ. Contacts are made to connect people with others helping them come to a full knowledge of truth. Invitations are given to visit with the local congregation and offering transportation making it possible. Encouraging young people into the home and letting them be involved with inviting others to Christ. And then learning how to talk with others about the salvation found in Jesus Christ. Sometimes people say they don’t know what to tell someone about how to become a Christian. It is simple – tell them why you became a child of God and how it has changed your life. Everyone can tell that story!

There are millions of dollars being raised by random acts of people pouring water on their heads. There can be many people in our community who can come to know the saving power of God by the selfless act of one person inviting one person to sit down at the dining room table and studying the word of God. Raising money for ALS is a noble cause. Saving souls for Christ has an eternal reward.

← Back

Thank you for your response. ✨

Posted in Character Study, Christian, Church, Marriage, Morality, New Testament, Old Testament, Proverbs, Social Issues, Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Today Is Monday – Be Kind

MondayToday is Monday. Do kind things this week. The first day of the week tells us the story of Jesus Christ who appeared showing kindness and love (Titus 3:4). Having spent the day in worship to the Father our second day begins a week of showing kindness to others. Albert Schweitzer said, “All the kindness which a man puts out into the world works on the heart and thoughts of mankind.” There is a contagious spirit of the welfare for our fellow man when we do a small act of kindness. Others may see a simple gesture of opening a door for someone and return an act of kindness to another. Road rage should be replaced with road kindness. Expressing a word of thanks to those we come in contact with may change that person’s day. Kindness, like snow, covers the world in a blanket of beauty that while made up of individual flakes of charity becomes a landscape of God’s love to all men.  “Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness” (Colossians 3:12). Doing kind things this week may surprise some people. Monday is a great day to do kind deeds because the blues of Monday will be brightened by the warmth of a kind hand or word. And then when the deeds and words of kindness continue throughout the week your life will change. That is the funny thing about kindness: you find your own happiness in sharing happiness with others. So what do you plan to do today to be kind? Remember there are five more days of the week to do random acts of kindness. I love Monday’s – don’t you?

← Back

Thank you for your response. ✨

Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

A Little Boy Named Robin

Robin WilliamsA Little Boy Named Robin

Every generation has its heroes and villains that identify the feelings and emotions of the historical river flowing through its years. The death of Robin Williams marked a few generations for the laughter he brought with his wit and ‘alien’ humor that for so many was refreshing and fun. He had a side of humor that was not clean but the image he portrayed in much of his work left an impression of comical relief enjoyed by all. His method of death is troubling for the causes and effects that led him to take his own life. There is sadness in the disease of the mind leading to one’s personal destruction. For all his laughter Williams shared a dark side of alcohol and drug abuse and continually battled alcohol throughout his life. The cause of his mental state has revived the need to understand depression and its impact upon a frail life. Debates will continue as to how he could take his life and the impact on so many levels. The real tragedy of Williams death is just that – he died.

Every day millions die from natural causes, violence, consequences from place and time, war, famine and neglect. The reasons are myriad as hatred continues to fill the corners of the globe with its tentacles of evil. Disease ravages populations without mercy to age, wealth, power or influence. Wars will always be fought as the arrogance of man compels him to destroy his neighbor. Natural calamities befall communities without warning taking untold lives. Mental illness also answers for many of those who die every day. To understand the real nature of the problem is to realize the true character of living. This can only be found in the word of God.

There is a profound sadness in the death of Robin Williams when a complete perspective is given of what his death means. It is not about the millions of dollars he gained in his life. The fame he enjoyed by the world is not the issue. His influence over generations of audiences pales in comparison to the real tragedy of his life. In dying the pleasures of life (alcohol and drugs) meant nothing. The news of Robin Williams dying is that Robin Williams died.

Sixty-three years ago in Chicago, Illinois a little boy was born. There was nothing unusual about his birth as millions of children were born in 1951. But what happened in July of 1951 was a little boy was introduced into the world that was created in the image of the Creator. “Then God said, ‘Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.’ So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them” (Genesis 1:26-27).

Robin Williams was created in the image and likeness of God. His death did not end his existence; it changed the body. Mortality ended and the continuance of the eternal body transformed to beyond the grave. “What man can live and not see death? Can he deliver his life from the power of the grave” (Psalms 89:48)? The rich man and Lazarus tell us that death is only a transition from a frame of flesh and bone to an eternal existence of joy or sorrow (Luke 16:19-31). The tragedy of August 11 was not the manner of his death but the reality that another soul stands before his Creator in eternity. His eternal state is in the hands of the Almighty. There are no more opportunities to live another day, say another word, change a decision made or hope for a better outlook. Death is final. It seals the soul in the expanse of eternity that never will be changed.

Turning the camera back to the 1950’s we find a little boy named Robin that was innocent of the dangers of the world. Bound in his heart would be the same feelings as all boys and girls who begin life in purity and free from the dregs of evil. There was a time in Williams’s life that he was not burdened with the weight of his decisions. Time changed this character. Sin marred his soul. He followed a path that would give him fame, fortune and pleasure but seemingly without the lasting joy found in early innocence. But that is the plight of all men. We all bear the mark of innocence in our childhood and battle the raging forces of Satan gaining hold of our lives. The greatest sadness in death is the power Satan has over so many lives that began in the humble character of children. Our greatest victory can only be embraced from the cross of Jesus Christ. The sadness in death is to see lives ruined by the trappings of the lie fueled by Satan in the Garden of Eden. “Has God indeed said” (Genesis 3:1)?

Jesus said, “Therefore I said to you that you will die in your sins; for if you do not believe that I am He, you will die in your sins” (John 8:24). The stark reality of life and death is whether one is going to seek wisdom and pleasure in the world or the eternal grace of God through His Son. It matters not how men view you in this life but how the Son of Man sees you in the final day. All men come into the world clean from the filth of sin. As little children their hearts are humble and pure and like soft clay waiting for the love of God to be inscribed on their hearts. Jesus sadly reminds us that most hearts will be hardened through the deceitfulness of sin and marred throughout eternity (Matthew 7:13).

Death is sad on many levels. It is especially sad as another spirit returns to God who gave it (Ecclesiastes 12:7) and the weight of one’s soul is measured on the scale of righteousness. “Then Jesus said to His disciples, ‘If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow Me. For whoever desires to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it. For what profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world, and loses his own soul? Or what will a man give in exchange for his soul? For the Son of Man will come in the glory of His Father with His angels, and then He will reward each according to his works’” (Matthew 16:24-27).

A little boy named Robin is in the hands of the Almighty. He will be in that great thong of humanity that stands before the bar of Jehovah in the day of judgment. In Athens the apostle Paul declared, “Truly, these times of ignorance God overlooked, but now commands all men everywhere to repent, because He has appointed a day on which He will judge the world in righteousness by the Man whom He has ordained. He has given assurance of this to all by raising Him from the dead” (Acts 17:30-31). The real story is not how Robin Williams died but how he lived. “Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: fear God and keep His commandments, for this is man’s all. For God will bring every work into judgment, including every secret thing, whether good or evil” (Ecclesiastes 12:13-14).

← Back

Thank you for your response. ✨

Posted in Character Study, Christian, Church, Marriage, Morality, New Testament, Old Testament, Proverbs, Social Issues, Uncategorized | Leave a comment