The Heaton File

We then who are strong ought to bear with the scruples of the weak, and not to please ourselves. Let each of us please his neighbor for his good, leading to edification. For even Christ did not please Himself; but as it is written, “The reproaches of those who reproached you fell on me.” (Romans 15:1-3)

Christ Did Not Please Himself

In a world filled with selfish hearts seeking their own desires and wants the Son of God came to earth and selfishly gave of Himself to die for every soul that will ever live upon the face of the earth. There are no words to describe the incredible gift of God when Jesus left His place with the Father and came to dwell among the creatures He created to be killed by the ones He loved so much. God left eternity to be a man in the flesh. For thirty years Jesus lived as ordinary a life as any other man in the land of Israel. In less than three short years He turned the world upside down and the place of the skull called Golgotha would become the rallying cry for millions through the centuries giving their lives to serve and worship the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. Men were weak and crippled by sin with no hope of glory, destitute and ignorant. As enemies of God every man stood condemned to an eternal life of horror and darkness. Goodness could not save them, works would not justify them and all the sacrifices of every animal on the face of the earth could not heal them. God sent His Son into the world to redeem man to Himself and show His own goodness through Jesus Christ. Justification would come through the blood of the Son of God and one sacrifice would redeem those who would come to the cross. Everything Jesus came to do and everything the Son of God accomplished was not about Himself or His own needs. He was God and could have called twelve legions of angels to destroy the world but He did not. His power was unlimited as he calmed the seas, feed thousands, healed every disease in the world and exercised authority over the domain of Satan. Still, with such great power Jesus did nothing through selfish ambition or conceit. Christ did not please Himself.

King David had written a psalm crying out for help in time of trouble. He speaks of the desire for God to save him because he was in dire trouble. David knew the Lord would deliver him and sought blessings from the Father to save him from the mire and those who hated him. It is this psalm the apostle Paul refers to Jesus as the example of someone who was in dire trouble seeking the blessings of the Father to deliver His soul from death. The lesson from David’s psalm is that Jesus was willing to suffer reproach and contempt of men in order to save man from himself. God’s Son came to serve men giving His life a ransom. What Jesus did lead to the greatest good man would ever know and usher eternal life into the heart of all men. The act of dying on the cross was a selfless act of love unmatched in the history of man. There is no greater picture of love, no higher praise of sacrifice and no story told on the lips of men that will match the grace of God to bring fallen man back to Eden. The reproach of man fell on Christ and He bore the guilt of sin while He Himself was sinless. It was one thing to see that Jesus died such a horrible manner with crucifixion. The greatest picture of love is to see a sinless Christ allow sinful man to kill Him. Jesus did not please Himself. He sought the will of His Father.

Paul’s example of Christ living for others is a pattern for how the children of God seek to please one another. Selfishness and pride is one of the greatest dangers in the church of Christ and destroys many souls through the arrogance of self-willed men who impose their will upon others. The apostle of Christ exhorts the strong to bear with the failings of the weak because Jesus did that for all men. No man in the body of Christ should seek to do things to please himself. Elders shepherd the flock of God by humility pleasing the heavenly Father above their own wills. Preachers never lord over a congregation with an iron fist of superiority intolerant with weak brethren. Men who cause division in the church because of their lack of humility do not show the pattern of Christ who did not please Himself. The church belongs to Christ and He is the only head. God sent His only begotten Son to establish the church whereby men could serve the Father in humility toward one another. When men begin to take on the spirit of Diotrephes seeking the preeminence among brethren they exhibit the character of Satan; not Christ. The Lord came to serve man and give Himself a ransom for man. Everything Jesus did was not about His will but the will of the Father. Remember the church was purchased by the blood of Jesus and everything that is done should be done for the glory of God. The strong have an obligation to bear with the failings of the weak because that is exactly what God did for me.

Likewise as it was also in the days of Lot: They ate, they drank, they bought, they sold, they planted, they built; but on the day that Lot went out of Sodom it rained fire and brimstone from heaven and destroyed them all. Even so will it be in the day when the Son of Man is revealed. “In that day, he who is on the housetop, and his goods are in the house, let him not come down to take them away. And likewise the one who is in the field, let him not turn back. Remember Lot’s wife. (Luke 17:28-32)

Remember Lot’s Wife

The Pharisees were a religious sect of the Jews that constantly sought to trap Jesus in His words. Preaching the message of the coming kingdom, Jesus confronted the leaders of Israel with His authoritative rebuke of their hypocrisy, unrighteousness and narrow view of scripture. They in turn tried to find ways to turn the hearts of the people away from Jesus for they feared they would lose their place among the people and the Romans. Jesus was not to be swayed by their selfish tactics and was unafraid to boldly challenge them. After healing ten men of leprosy, the Pharisees came to Jesus and asked when the kingdom of God would come. The Lord knew their purpose and boldly proclaimed the truth that had long been known among men that the day of the Lord does not come with warning and there would be no signs of the impending doom. Many will not be ready when the Lord brings judgment. Jesus uses two powerful stories from the Old Testament to illustrate the condition of unprepared men and through these stories warn those who feel justified in themselves. The first story comes from the days of Noah when God destroyed all mankind save eight in the terrible flood. It is in the second story that Jesus offers an insight into the soul of man that every opportunity is given for men to know the truth and they turn away from God and His blessings.

Abraham was one of the great men of faith in the Old Testament. He became the father of the nation of Israel and symbol of all the blessings of God. In the family of Abraham there was a nephew named Lot that traveled with Abraham when he left his home in Ur. Every place that Abraham journeyed the family of Lot went. Lot was married and would have two daughters. As the tribe of Abraham settled in the land of Bethel trouble arose between the herdsmen of Lot and his uncle. There was not enough land to support them because their possessions were so great. Abraham allowed Lot to choose the best land for his flocks while he dwelt in the land of Canaan. The trouble for Lot came when he pitched his tent toward the evil cities of Sodom and Gomorrah where he time he moved his family and began dwelling among the unrighteous. Then the day came when the Lord would destroy the cities and came to rescue the nephew of Abraham. It was not an easy task to get Lot and his family to leave Sodom. Finally after much urging, the angels took Lot and his wife along with two daughters by the hand and led them out of the city. They were instructed to flee to the mountains and not to look back. As the family fled away it was the wife of Lot that could not bear to turn away from her home and disregarding the clear command of the Lord turned back. God struck her dead turning her into a pillar of salt. Lot and his daughters fled to the mountains. Jesus uses this one act by Lot’s wife to warn the Pharisees their wicked hearts would not save them when judgment came.

Lot’s wife was blessed among women to be in the company of Abraham and Sarah. Spending time with these great people of faith should have impacted her in many positive ways but somewhere Lot’s wife failed to appreciate the value of her family. She was married to a righteous man. It vexed the soul of Lot daily for the wickedness of Sodom. She was blessed to be in the company of good and righteous people much of her life but seemed to gravitate toward the trappings of Sodom. The providence of God was clearly evident in the two men who came to visit them in Sodom. They were the messengers of God who blinded all those who sought to storm the house of Lot. She saw the love of God in sending the angels to deliver them and this should have spurned her heart to greater devotion. The angels told her what would happen to Sodom and she should have known the righteous judgment of the Lord upon those wicked cities was the right thing to do. The destruction of the cities did not come as a surprise to her. After a long night of disagreement she was taken out of the city and was running away when she disobeyed God. She was leaving but turned around. How sad. It was but a short distance to safety but she was lost because her obedience did not find itself in keeping the commands of the Lord. There may have been good reasons for this woman to look back at her home but the Lord had prohibited it and would not tolerate disobedience. She lost her life because of selfish reasons. What is the greater tragedy is that she disobeyed one time and turned into a pillar of salt. Her heart was evil and her life was taken. Finally, she was going in the right direction and still lost her life. Obedience is not a partial responsibility that one can almost accomplish. True obedience is always full obedience. Half-hearted religion is no religion at all. Lot’s wife is a powerful testimony to the grace, mercy, love, wrath and punishment of God among those people who do not obey His word. Remember Lot’s wife.

Jesus spoke these words, lifted up His eyes to heaven, and said: “Father, the hour has come. Glorify Your Son, that Your Son also may glorify You, as You have given Him authority over all flesh, that He should give eternal life to as many as You have given Him. And this is eternal life, that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom You have sent. I have glorified You on the earth. I have finished the work which You have given Me to do. And now, O Father, glorify Me together with Yourself, with the glory which I had with You before the world was. (John 17:1-5)

Praying For Self

Jesus was facing the cross and the dread of what He was going to do overwhelmed His spirit. As He prayed in the garden of Gethsemane he was filled with sorrow and deeply distressed. Judas had left the group to find those who come and take Jesus away to be tried and killed on a cross. There was a lot that was going to happen in the final hours the Son of God would spend on earth and much of this was spent in prayer by the Lord. He told His eleven apostles He would be going away but their hearts should not be troubled. There would be a Helper that would come and comfort the hearts of the disciples leading them in the way of understanding and truth. Much of what Jesus told the eleven did not register as these men could not imagine what would happen in the next few hours. As they made their way to the mount of Olives Jesus offered prayers for the eleven and all those who would believe on Him. Before asking the blessings of His Father upon everyone else Jesus asked for the Father to bless Him. He speaks of the time long before the world was created when the mind of God revealed to the Son the plan to redeem man. His hour had come that had been formulated in eternity. The purpose of His coming was to glorify the Father showing the incredible love and wisdom of the One who formed all things and gave the breath of life to man. Jesus wanted to do everything in His death that would glorify the will of His Father. The reason the Son of God came to earth was to bring salvation to fallen man. All authority would be given to Christ to show men the way, the truth and the life in the Father. Jesus did not come to glorify Himself but to lead men to the Father. Eternal life was found in the knowledge of the great God and Father whom Jesus served as Son. Through the sacrifice of His own body, Jesus offered Himself as the sacrificial lamb and in His blood men would find the redemption of their souls. More than thirty years had passed when Jesus came to earth and now with the shadow of the cross hanging heavy over His heart He acknowledged He had done the will of the Father. Everything they had planned had been carried out save the cross. His work was almost finished. It was time for Jesus to die. He asked His Father for that last measure of courage to endure His final hours on earth to complete the task and finish the work. Jesus prayed for Himself. He needed the blessings of His Father to endure. The Father granted His prayer.

The prayer of Jesus is remarkable for the strength of character it shows in the Son of God seeking the favor of the Father upon Himself. There are many things to pray for and Jesus had talked at length with the eleven about what was going to happen. Whether these men fully grasped the meaning of the hour is doubtful as they could not imagine Jesus would be dead within hours. In the midst of the greatest needs the world would ever know Jesus prays for Himself. He needed strength. His heart was in need of courage. The things He would face were overwhelming to His spirit and He prayed for the Father to bless Him. What must be seen in this prayer is that if Jesus Christ the Son of God saw the need to pray for self; what man among men does not need the same measure? Prayer should involve many things and many people. What is often left out of daily prayer is time spent asking God to bless the important needs of self. It is not seeking a self-centered desire for self-gratification but a realization that everyone needs to spend time asking the Father to bless their personal needs in a personal way. Jesus knew He needed help and He asked His Father to glorify Him by His death. Praying for self has the motivation of giving God the glory and letting others see the glory of God living in them. When a man prays for self to glorify God he is praying a prayer of divine involvement in his life so that others can see Christ living in his life.

Praying for the needs of self shows a reliance on the favor of God to guide the heart, soul and mind of the individual. If Jesus saw the need to pray for Himself there can be no doubt the needs of man are greater. Seeking the blessing of the Lord upon the will of self is imperative to grow in the grace and knowledge of the Son and have courage to face the dark hours of the cross. Prayer is a powerful tool to change the world but it is a very imposing power to change the life of the individual. Never neglect the time to spend time in prayer asking the Father to bless your heart with faith and to do all things that will bring glory to the will of the Lord. Ask the Father to use your life to show others the plan of salvation, the grace of Christian living, the glory of the church and the hope of eternal life. If every child of God prayed for individual blessings from the Father to use their lives to glorify Him there world would be turned upside down. Lift your eyes to heaven and pray the Father, “Glorify your child, that your child may glorify You.”

You also say, ‘Oh, what a weariness!’ And you sneer at it,” says the Lord of hosts. “And you bring the stolen, the lame, and the sick; thus you bring an offering! Should I accept this from your hand?” says the Lord. (Malachi 1:13)

Worship Is Weariness

The longsuffering of God is one of the most remarkable attributes of the heavenly Father man can try to grasp and understand. Throughout the centuries of man’s attempt to worship Him, the Lord has seen His fair share of feeble attempts by bored hearts to worship Him in spirit and truth. When the children of Israel returned from a seventy year bondage as punishment for the rebellion of their fathers, they rebuilt the temple in Jerusalem and returned to worship as prescribed in the Law of Moses. However, the spirit of their worship was less than ideal and had become something of a weariness as they trudged through the five acts of worship required to have their ticket punched for being a righteous follower of God. Worship done, things done, songs sung, sacrifices made, offerings given and back to their lives of materialism, entertainment and jobs. They will be back the following week to do the same boring things unless something like a ball game, vacation, movie, concert, job or a slight headache will hinder them from gathering with the people of God to do that thing … what is it called .. oh yes: worship in spirit and truth. This is what they do year after year and week after week. The same songs, the same prayers and the same boring sermon that is always twenty minutes too long for a thirty minute endurance test and I have to leave early because I have a reservation at the steak house with friends or a party to go to or my job that runs my life so much that I have little time to worship the Lord God Almighty. Oh what a weariness. What does God expect of me? How can I get my life done when He demands so much of my time? I don’t feel like that whole Sunday night thing because it will mean cutting short the time I get to work in my yard or that shopping trip planned for Sunday afternoon or the leisure stroll on the beach. And why should I meet with the saints on Wednesday night to study some old crusty worn out book that means so little to me when I have so many things to do.

Life is very busy and trying to find time to make those sacrifices is asking too much. My job is a hassle and the kids have the flu and there is so much to do I do not have time to spend in worship to the Lord. Besides, it is too far to drive. What does the Lord expect of me? I have a car or truck that comes with power steering, air-conditioning, cruise control, soft seats and a great radio and for God to expect me to drive very far to worship is asking too much. I may drive fifty miles to shop but worship is not shopping. When it rains I might get wet when I get out of my car (but thankfully I don’t live in the horse and buggy days or walk to church in the rain). Worship is such drudgery. Oh what a weariness. I will not miss a day of work but missing church services is okay and the Lord expects more of me? In what way have I despised His name? I give him the best of my leftovers and there are always plenty of my leftovers to give to God. Does He expect me to give Him my best? Isn’t that asking a lot out of me, Lord? How have we defiled you, Lord? In what way have we wearied you, Lord? I do not understand why the Lord does see how difficult it is to worship Him.

When the children of Israel first entered the land of Canaan, the Lord warned them of becoming too comfortable in their surroundings. He told them that when life became so good and they turned their hearts away from Him that He would visit them and remind them of their folly. Returning from bondage, the people again began to worship God with a spirit of apathy. Their sacrifices were as lame and broken as their hearts were. It is easy to fall prey to the rituals of worship of gathering each Sunday and do the same things in the same way under the same umbrella of weary worship wondering why a person is doing what they are doing but doing them because they must go through the motions to make it look good for someone to see how religious they are. When God looks down His heart breaks to see His people worship in a spirit of weariness and apathy. It is so hard to suffer the persecution of worship in this country. We have it so difficult and demanding. May God send His army of true warriors to awaken the sleeping souls of those who find such weariness in their worship of the one true God.

I hate the double-minded, but I love Your law. You are my hiding place and my shield; I hope in Your word. Depart from me, you evildoers, for I will keep the commandments of my God! Uphold me according to Your word, that I may live; and do not let me be ashamed of my hope. Hold me up, and I shall be safe, and I shall observe Your statutes continually. You reject all those who stray from Your statutes, for their deceit is falsehood. You put away all the wicked of the earth like dross; therefore I love Your testimonies. My flesh trembles for fear of You, and I am afraid of Your judgments. (Psalm 119:113-120)

How The Word Changes The Heart

The fifteenth division of this psalm is a continuing theme of the power of God’s word and the failed wisdom of man. There is a fervency of spirit to abide in the teachings of the law, commandments, statutes, testimonies and judgments of the Lord. It is not merely an intellectual discovery the psalmist makes about the word of God but an emotional bonding that will create in him a deep and abiding love for the law of the Lord. Law keeping in many forms is a system of repetitive expressions of obedience only because of necessity. The statutes of God are framed in such a way to create an emotional response to those who will keep the commandments of truth finding hope, security and fear in the will of the Father. There must be a demonstrative expression of the heart when the word of God dwells as a hiding place and shield in the soul of man. It is impossible to spend much time in the word of God without the message of the Lord inspiring and creating in the heart chords of thanksgiving, praise and glory to the author and finisher of hope. Double-minded hearts are not in tune with the true message of God’s word. Love for the heavenly Father bears open the mind to receive the eternal message of salvation ascribed on the pages of holy writ.

Someone said the scriptures are written to comfort the afflicted but they will also afflict the comfortable. True knowledge of the statutes of the Lord will change the heart in ways never imagined. Truth becomes clearer and evil becomes darker. The evildoers will not last long under the microscope of God’s law. Falsehood will be clearly defined in the testimonies of righteousness from the word of the Lord. There is a remarkable change that impacts the stubborn heart to either receive the message of hope or reject the only hope. Change takes place regardless. Trusting in the word of God will bring about the security of a heavenly hiding place. As a shield in the hands of a soldier the word of God will protect and defend the heart from all attacks of the evil one. Keeping the commandments of the Lord will uphold the spirit of grace in the lives of those who trust in His word without being ashamed. The word of God holds up the weakened hands, strengthens the weary legs and keeps the feet on the path of truth. Those who stray from the path of His word do not abide in His word. Their love is not given to know the law of God. Only when the heart seeks to know the statutes of the Lord will hope and peace be found. The longer one spends in meditation of the word the great the love for His word grows.

A final feature of the word of God is the aspect of fear. The psalmist clearly loves the law of God and makes notations of how much it has changed his life. Included in this transition is the full knowledge of the fear of the Lord. Reading the history of man through the pages of God’s word opens up the mind to the judgment of the Lord upon sinful man. The Lord is full of mercy, grace and love but He has also left a testimony of His fierce anger and wrath against all ungodliness. Noah lived in a time when the wrath of God was demonstrated on a global scale. Abraham witnessed the destruction of the cities of the plain as the Lord rained judgment on the immorality of those condemned. The nation of Israel was given divine authority to exterminate the nations of Canaan because of their iniquity. All flesh should tremble for fear of God and to be afraid of the judgments of God. It is real. The purpose of the examples of the wrath of the Lord is to instill in the heart of all men that God is a Lord of punishment upon the evil doers. This judgment is an expression of His divine love. Everything the Lord God has done is right because the nature of God is truth. Reading the laws, judgments, commandments and statutes of the Lord will demonstrate His goodness and His severity. The question that must be asked is how has the word of God changed your life? If there has been no change you are not reading His word.

“Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ shall enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father in heaven. Many will say to Me in that day, ‘Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in Your name, cast out demons in Your name, and done many wonders in Your name?’ And then I will declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from Me, you who practice lawlessness!’ (Matthew 7:21-23)

The Saddest Words In The Bible

Jesus is never called the Master Teacher but He was a masterful teacher of the will of His Father. The Sermon on the Mount is an incredible series of exhortations filling the world with the nature of discipleship and cost of serving the Lord. In one way nothing is new in the sermon as all the principles outlined by Jesus have always been the view of God’s relationship to man and the need of man to worship God in spirit and truth. But the measure of the sermon is so refreshing and powerful the people were astonished at the authority of its message and the one delivering the word. Jesus did now waver to speak clearly of the duties of man to the Father, to self and others. His speech was clear and demonstrative of the serious nature of obedience to the will of the Father with no regards to the frivolity of man. It is striking how the Lord plainly tells the reality of salvation is limited to the few while most men will reject Him and the word of His Father. Hard sayings fill the Sermon on the Mount. Some of the saddest words uttered by Jesus are found in this powerful sermon. None will be as clear as the final words given by the Lord in declaring the end of the matter and reality of the frailty of man.

Not everyone who thinks they are saved will be saved. Salvation does not come from the views of men who frame their own totems of faith into their own image. Jesus says that many people will live with His name on their lips and not find eternal life. Saying, “Lord, Lord” is a powerful motive to live and serve for Jesus Christ but uttering these words will not bring about salvation. Words must have a heart that is willing to follow the commands of God and without that diligence to live in accordance with the pattern of God there can be no salvation. Religious people may be religious but they may not be saved. That is a hard saying but a true saying. Remember Jesus is the one saying this and by the word of God’s Son salvation will not come to those who show a religious life and say words that express a belief in God. Belief in Jesus alone cannot save or all the demons would be saved (and they tremble). Salvation comes from those who do the will of the Father in heaven. Many people are very religious or at least profess to have a deep faith in the Lord but refuse to accept the teachings of the Bible as a guide for their lives. They will not find happiness in eternity without doing the will of the Father. So much of the religious world teaches a salvation by faith only or grace alone rejecting the notion of being justified by works. This is nothing more than the poison of deception filling the cup by Satan to deceive men into believing they are saved when in fact they are not. Faith is justified by works through the grace of God. Jesus said being religious will not save but doing the will of the Father. Without doing the will of the Father there will be no salvation.

Sadly, many people (according to Jesus) will stand before the Father on the judgment day and profess they prophesied in the name of Christ, cast out demons in the name of Jesus and did many wonders in the name of the Lord. No doubt those gathered at the grave mourning the loss of this great individual will usher them into the halls of God’s grace in eternal life. What is not known to those left behind is their loved one who did all those things in the name of Jesus Christ will not be saved because they never did the will of the Father. Can a person prophesy in the name of Jesus and be lost? Will a man who says he cast out demons in the name of Jesus be saved? What will become of those who say they did many wonders in the name of the Lord? The question is not whether they are justified by saying they did all these things but whether they did the will of the Father. Jesus pronounces the saddest words in the Bible when He looks in the eyes of these people who died believing they were saved and tells them He never knew them in regards to salvation. Many people will find this to be true and the words will be crushing. They spent all their lives serving the Lord they never obeyed. The final words are the most tragic: depart from Me. Turned away from the grace of God because they did not follow the will of the Father. They were outside the law of God and practiced lawlessness. How sad.

Now as soon as they had come out of the synagogue, they entered the house of Simon and Andrew, with James and John. But Simon’s wife’s mother lay sick with a fever, and they told Him about her at once. So He came and took her by the hand and lifted her up, and immediately the fever left her. And she served them. (Mark 1:29-31)

The Family Of The Apostle Peter

There are many things that are not explained in scripture and often completely left out. One of the important keys of Bible study is to understand everything contained in scripture is there for the single purpose of God revealing His Son to all men for salvation and many details are left out because they are of little or no importance to the larger picture. Knowing more about the lives of those whose characters grace the pages of holy writ intrigue the reader but are left to wonder without any fuller explanation. Peter was one of the original apostles called along with his brother Andrew and fellow fishermen James and John. He was an impulsive man who often was at odds with the Lord but just as often filled with the clarity of the message. Little is known of his personal life outside him being a fisherman by trade. On one occasion Jesus was in the city of Capernaum (located on the western shores of the Sea of Galilee) and entered the home of Peter. The city of Capernaum was a central place for Jesus and is sometimes called “His city.” Arriving at the home of Andrew and Peter, the Lord was told the mother-in-law of Peter was sick with a high, burning fever. This would be very dangerous in a day with proper medicine and caused great concern. Living close to the sea would have made this a common occurrence with fears those who came down with the fever would die. Jesus comes to the woman and heals her of the fever completely. Showing the power of the healing, Peter’s mother-in-law begins to serve the people who have arrived. Nothing else is known about her and she fades from the story of the Bible.

Peter will write two epistles that are preserved by the Holy Spirit and in his first epistle refer to himself as a “fellow elder” indicating that he was married and had believing children. Unlike the brothers of Jesus who are named in scripture along with references to sisters of the Lord, none of the family of Peter is mentioned by name. What is learned by these references is that Peter had a normal family as any other man with the extended family of in-laws. Mrs. Peter must have been a remarkable woman to be married to such a charismatic man like her husband. It would be interesting to know the conversations Peter had with his wife about the ministry of Jesus. What did he tell her about the miracles, teachings and amazing things witnessed through the power of God? Did she know about Peter walking on the water? Was her counsel part of the reason Peter mellowed in his spirit to become the devoted man found in his two epistles? He traveled a lot when he began the work of the early church. How did Peter’s mother-in-law take the news her daughter’s husband being arrested by the Jewish leaders? When they were put on trial again and beaten did Mrs. Peter help bandage up the wounds from the beatings? Without being said it would seem apparent these women had a huge part in the life of Peter to be the man he would become.

The scriptures do not say anything about the children of Peter. Did he have a son like himself or a daughter who fully wrapped the old fisherman around her heart? His children were in the kingdom of God and as a family Peter and his wife were key ingredients to the local church and the spread of the kingdom. How much Mrs. Peter and the family traveled with Peter are not known but he did find himself in many places: Jerusalem, Samaria, Lydda, Sharon, and Joppa and all parts of the country. Peter traveled to Caesarea on the Mediterranean coast to talk with a Roman Centurion. What stories did Peter tell his family about the man Saul of Tarsus who obeyed the gospel of Jesus Christ and was now a disciple of the Lord? Paul on one occasion had to rebuke Peter publically because of his hypocrisy with the Gentiles. One can only imagine the conversations with the family and how Mrs. Peter probably told Peter, “I told you so.” The lesson that is learned is that Peter was just a regular guy married with a family that loved the Lord and did a lot of work to make possible what all men enjoy today in the revelation of God’s grace. He was a dutiful husband, father, son-in-law and prayerfully a grandfather one day that watched his family endure the hardships of those early days as followers of Christ. Among all things he was a leader in his home guiding the family to the heavenly portal of salvation. As a preacher of the gospel and apostle of Christ, Peter leaves a legacy to follow to care for family and to guide them in the paths of righteousness.

Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness? And what accord has Christ with Belial? Or what part has a believer with an unbeliever? And what agreement has the temple of God with idols? For you are the temple of the living God. As God has said: “I will dwell in them and walk among them. I will be their God, and they shall be my people.” Therefore “Come out from among them and be separate, says the Lord. Do not touch what is unclean, and I will receive you. I will be a Father to you, and you shall be my sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty.” (2 Corinthians 6:14-18)

The Challenge Of Coming Out

It is not easy to be different. One of the first needs of a child is to be accepted and be part of a peer group whether family or friends. The identity of self is defined by the relationships that are gendered over time and held in trust by the interaction of life. Friendships develop through the avenue of reciprocal interest and likes bonding the souls together as one. It will not be an easy task to separate those relationships that are common to man. The challenge for the child of God is a matter of allegiance. One of the principles of obedience to God is the need to put first all things godly and to separate the spirit of man from those things contrary to the teachings of the Lord. From the beginning of time God has required first place and first priority from His children. This moved Abram to leave his home of seventy-five years traveling to a place he had no knowledge of and trusting in the providence of the Lord. Joseph aligned himself with the true God in a pagan world and would be rewarded years later with authority in Egypt second only to Pharaoh. Daniel and his friends were forced to live in a heathen land as servants of the conquering king but they refused to defile themselves remaining pure from the pollution’s of the world. Jesus was tempted in all points and through the power of God lived a sinless life free from the defilement’s of a darkened world. The city of Corinth was a wicked and decadent place for anyone to live but especially for a Christian. Paul writes to the saints in Corinth and exhorts them to come out from among the influences of the evil world they lived in and be examples of purity in an impure world. That would be quite a challenge to accomplish but with God’s help it could be done.

The principle of fellowship is to whom the heart is bound. Relationships are built on commonalities and the challenge for the Christian is how far they allow their live to be wrapped up in the affairs of the world. Paul challenges the early disciples to examine whether righteousness should fellowship lawlessness. The two are not compatible with one another and serve a different end. This is not suggesting a person remove himself from the world but rather the interaction of spirit, soul, mind and body with those things that are contrary to the purity of God’s word should be muted. A child of God cannot serve two masters. Using a term of agriculture, the apostle asked a rhetorical question of whether a believer can be yoked to an unbeliever. There is a bonding that happens when one enjoins his life with the other. We may live in the same pasture but we do not need to be yoked to them. The stronger will dominates and when a child of God is yoked in fellowship with an unbeliever it will be the unbeliever that normally will have the stronger influence. Light and darkness do not have communion with one another. Belial is a transliteration of the Hebrew word of worthlessness and applied to Satan. Can anyone imagine Jesus and Satan yoked together? Why should the child of God and the child of Satan be yoked together? The believer and the unbeliever have nothing in common to share as one is saved by grace and the other condemned for rebellion. What agreement would the Temple of God have in allowing statutes of Zeus, Baal, Buddha or any other idol to be placed within its holy walls? The contrast Paul draws is clearly evident and challenging for the Christian to realize the importance of separating themselves from the influences of an ungodly world.

Each person that puts on Christ in obedience becomes a temple of the living God. The Lord dwells in the temples of the heart in each child that loves Him and obeys His word following His precepts and laws. Separation is essential to the character of the Christian to not fellowship the unfruitful works of darkness. God dwells in holy temples of the soul that have removed the trappings of the world from its walls. Paul exhorts the Corinthians to come out from among the darkness of the Corinthian world and stand for Jesus Christ as sons and daughters of the Lord Almighty. This requires action on the part of the child of God to come out and to remove the influences of the world from their lives. Two things are noted in the exhortation: (1) be separate; (2) do not touch. There must first be a removal and then there must be a commitment not to return to the darkness of sin. Coming out from among the world is where God said He will meet with His children and share with them His glory. He will not give that blessing to those who remain in the world of darkness or refuse to come out from among the world. The challenge of coming out is the courage required to make that change in life.

Then the Philistines gathered together to fight with Israel, thirty thousand chariots and six thousand horsemen, and people as the sand which is on the seashore in multitude. And they came up and encamped in Michmash, to the east of Beth Aven. When the men of Israel saw that they were in danger (for the people were distressed), then the people hid in caves, in thickets, in rocks, in holes, and in pits. And some of the Hebrews crossed over the Jordan to the land of Gad and Gilead. As for Saul, he was still in Gilgal, and all the people followed him trembling. Then he waited seven days, according to the time set by Samuel. But Samuel did not come to Gilgal; and the people were scattered from him. So Saul said, “Bring a burnt offering and peace offerings here to me.” And he offered the burnt offering. Now it happened, as soon as he had finished presenting the burnt offering, that Samuel came; and Saul went out to meet him, that he might greet him. And Samuel said, “What have you done?” Saul said, “When I saw that the people were scattered from me, and that you did not come within the days appointed, and that the Philistines gathered together at Michmash, then I said, ‘The Philistines will now come down on me at Gilgal, and I have not made supplication to the Lord.’ Therefore I felt compelled, and offered a burnt offering.” And Samuel said to Saul, “You have done foolishly. You have not kept the commandment of the Lord your God, which He commanded you. For now the Lord would have established your kingdom over Israel forever. But now your kingdom shall not continue. The Lord has sought for Himself a man after His own heart, and the Lord has commanded him to be commander over His people, because you have not kept what the Lord commanded you.” (1 Samuel 13:5-14)

I Felt Compelled

The nation of Israel had demanded a king to lead them into battle and Saul would be their first ruler with disastrous results. It was only a few years after being anointed by Samuel that Saul proved to be a man who cared more for his own will than the commandment of the Lord. The Philistines would be a constant source of trouble for the young nation. Thirty thousand chariots of the Philistines along with six thousand horsemen and innumerable warriors stood against King Saul and his rag-tag army of Israelite’s. The men of Israel were terrified at the sight of the huge army of Philistines gathered against them and many of the Israelite’s hid in distress. Saul was no doubt concerned for his young nation and anxiously waited for Samuel to arrive to bless the people and give them courage. The prophet Samuel instructed Saul to wait seven days for him to arrive but Samuel did not come to Gilgal at the allotted time. Concerned he would lose his nation; King Saul took matters into his own hand and offered the burnt offering in the place of Samuel. As king of Israel Saul had the authority to carry out many duties but to serve as a priest and prophet of the people was not given to him. As soon as he finished offering the burnt offering Samuel came. It would seem Saul was excited to see Samuel and tell him he had taken it upon himself to offer the burnt offering for the people since the prophet had delayed his coming. In the mind of Saul it was the right thing to do considering the circumstance and surely Samuel would understand.

From the view of Saul there was a big problem. The Philistines had gathered against him with an incredible army that seemed invincible. There was little hope of winning the battle and with Samuel delaying his arrival the people began to leave in fear of the opposing Philistine army. For the king it was a watershed moment of decision to keep the people together and although he knew he had no authority to offer the burnt offering he forced himself to take the place of Samuel since it seemed a good idea to make the sacrifice. He probably performed the sacrifice in the right manner with the right animal. However Samuel rebuked the king for making an unlawful sacrifice and failing to trust in the will of the Lord. It was foolish for Saul to think God did not know what He was doing. Saul could not wait on the Lord when he offered the burnt offering. The king had failed to keep the commandment of the Lord regardless of the circumstance. Saul knew the law and understood he had no right to offering the burnt offering even if he thought it was a good idea and needful at the time. Being the king did not give him the authority. The thousands of Philistines set in war against them was not a reason to disobey the will of God. Having a good idea and feeling compelled to go beyond the law of God was not reason enough. What Saul did was what so many people have done in religion to go beyond what is written.

Circumstances do not change the law of God. The apostasy of the New Testament church is born from the illicit ideas of men thinking they know more than commandments of the Lord. There are many things that work well in the business world but do not fit in the church of God because there is no authority. Men go beyond the word of God because they feel compelled to help the Lord out with His plan (that in the minds of men is not going to work). Look at the denominational world of religion and see the chaos and confusion in the programs and teachings of man-made churches that like Saul are making unlawful sacrifices to the Lord. The sacrifice of Saul probably looked a lot like what Samuel would have done but Saul had no authority to carry out the sacrifice. It did not matter to God that Saul thought it was a good idea. There was no authority. From the beginning of time authority must be established in worship and without authority worship is vain. When men go beyond the word of God they go beyond the bounds of authority. Like Saul, religion has become foolishness because they refuse to follow the word of God. And like Saul, the religions of men will be cast down as refuse when the Lord appears because there is no authority for their sacrifices.

Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path. I have sworn and confirmed that I will keep Your righteous judgments. I am afflicted very much; revive me, O Lord, according to Your word. Accept, I pray, the freewill offerings of my mouth, O Lord, and teach me Your judgments. My life is continually in my hand, yet I do not forget Your law. The wicked have laid a snare for me, yet I have not strayed from Your precepts. Your testimonies I have taken as a heritage forever, for they are the rejoicing of my heart. I have inclined my heart to perform Your statutes forever, to the very end. (Psalm 119:105-112)

Light In A Time Of Darkness

The technology of man has brought many blessings that generations before could never have appreciated or dreamed possible. What is taken for granted with unmeasured ease is the ability to light the world in almost any environment. Houses are filled with lights, automobiles race across the landscape with ease because of the power of illumination and whether crossing the vast oceans or flying through the air, man has captured the power of light to fill his world with the brightness of day. It is only when the power goes out that lives are disrupted and frustrated because there is no light. What is ironic of this situation is that for eons of generations the ability of man to light his world was limited to a small space of his world using only oil lamps, wax candles or fire to bring some brightness to a very dark world. Darkness prevailed in the world because of the limitations of man’s ability to fill his world with light. The psalmist lived in a time where electricity was thousands of years away and his world was brightened by lamps and crude implements that cast long shadows through the darkness. It was vital to have these lights to see in the dark of night depending on the lamps to guide their footsteps. There is a certain imagery that is lost on modern man that men like the psalmist embraced with great ease. Having a lamp to light the way was a means of great joy and comfort.

Reflecting on the importance of light in the darkness, the psalmist illustrates the power of the word of God. He calls the righteous judgments of the Lord a lamp to his feet and a light to his path. There is a great power of spiritual darkness permeating the world and the only way to go through life with sure footing is to rely on the lamp of God to light the way. Danger awaits those who seek to walk in darkness. Keeping the righteous judgments of the Lord will help the soul be safe from the wiles of the devil. When affliction arises he will trust in the word to revive him and protect him. There will be no voice of complaint but a freewill offering of praise because the judgments of the Lord have taught the heart to walk in the path of light. The law of God is always present to guide the soul in the proper path. There are many dangers as the wicked lay snares to trap the righteous. How can a man know how to walk in darkness if he does not have a light to guide him? The precepts of God will keep the soul on the true path. This light must never go out but kept as a continual heritage forever. Like the physical world, the host of darkness will last until the end of the world. Spiritual darkness will fill the hearts of men until the coming of the Son of God and the need of keeping the word of God as a lamp to guide the soul is more present than ever before. Obedience comes from hearts filled with the light of God to perform the statues of truth, righteousness and godliness.

A final note about this portion of the psalm. Like so much of the psalm, the author emphasizes the many parts of the revelation of God to man. He calls the word of God the righteous judgments, word, law, precepts, testimonies and statues. Obedience does not come only from a heart of faith believing in the power of the Lord and His grace. The need of grace and mercy are key ingredients to find oneself pleasing to God but obedience to the judgments of the Lord is imperative. There are laws that must be kept, precepts obeyed, testimonies followed and statues bound in the heart. Too many of those who want to follow Jesus believe that having a faith in the Son of God is all they need to be found pleasing. The doctrine of salvation by faith alone without works is a dead faith. The psalmist understood this teaching long before it was emphasized by the New Testament writers. Salvation comes from taking the word of God and using it as a light to the path of life. Believing in light will not benefit a man who does not take the light with him into the darkness. The word of God is a lamp to the feet of those who carry the righteous judgments of the Lord in their hearts through study and application. Keeping the righteous judgments of God requires possessing the word in the heart. The prayer of the psalmist was for the Lord to teach him the judgments that will protect him, guide him and help him through the vale of spiritual darkness that encircles the world. There is personal accountability required of those who seek the favor of God. The word can only be a lamp to the feet when the light is in the hand of the one seeking to light his way. Without the word of God (judgments, law, precepts and statues) – how dark is the darkness. Light your world with His word – Jesus Christ.